2012- Some Lessons Learnt! o:)

    

2012 , A Learning year.. 5 months passed since it started and there was no time to realise. Seems like I was busy learning too much from whatever I faced. 10 Best Things I wish to adapt. Not only me but even You should. 

 #1. ISOLATION - You need time for yourself. Sparing some hours or even some minutes for yourself would be the best thing possible to take an escape from what's bothering you. Close your room. Lie down on bed. Put your headphones on. Listen to music and conk off. Talk to no one. Put DND as your Bbm status and stay away from the world. You'd then realise what you need.. A bit of Isolation!

#2. SOAKING PILLOWS FOR SAME STORIES ? #Avoid (which I know is a little too difficult) - Do you really think crying over a spilt milk makes a good sense? Naa. Yes, You WILL come across same phases with different  people around you that will tend to break you down. Rather just walk a step ahead. Enter a new phase. Experience it. Feel it. Express it. Meet new people but dont commit the same mistake again.

#3. LIFE BEYOND PRIORITIES, Its Beautiful ! :) - The day when you make some people your Only priority , who's everything and everyone for you... That's when you lose your own Dignity! Later when you'd realise its not the same from their side, you'd feel helpless.. crippled and would be loaded with regrets. Cuz' you expect something from them too and you dont see your expectations working out there. #Do Not expect. Life is just Beautiful and happy moreover, the other way! <3

#4. NOT EVERYONE DESERVES TO BE LOVED. Be Content. -You knew you'll love a person for an Infinite period of time (Be it a Crush, a bestfriend, a close one etc..) , dedicating your heart and soul just behind that One person with no expectations but just a ray of hope that dies later. Its time you realise (though if its a bit too late but 'Its time you started!!" :) ) Move on. (#Moved On). When statements like : ' Learn to let go things when they aren't meant for you' hits you straight at the right place, Raise your Self-Respect!!

#5. LUCK WORKS WHEN YOU EXPECT THE LEAST - 12th February, 2012, My NIFT Entrance, The most crucial exam of my life.. My career-deciding exam would have been an unexpected paper of my life. When I had bleak chances of getting in.. Lost All hopes probably. Similar situation with MIT .. And the results declare I've nailed it .. Nailed both the exams. #HappiestMomentsEver. :D So, Give your best but expect Low! :)

#6. KILL THE DEVIL - Vibes that let you down or make you feel depressed or make you feel low, try over-coming them by going to a place that vanishes away those feeling, drains out completely and all that is left behind is purity with A Lott of smiles on your face. (I would suggest you to go to the beach, since its now my second home and I feel good!  :P )

#7. POSTING A FAKE EXTERIOR ? NOT COOL! (n) - Everyone seems to be in trend of faking. You Fake a smile and people believe everything's alright. Stop doing it. What good in pretending ? :S
They say everything's 'Normal'. But what does reality say ? We all know it well! People fight. Avoid eachother for a day or two. Then, Everything's sorted. Come up with a statement "Okay we're cool. We're Normal. " But did you ever realise that nothing is normal once it falls. It either breaks or it's cracked. Situations take a bad turn. Relationships turn formal. The former bond loses its rigidity and still you hear people saying ''Yes, We're Normal!" - Sounds convincing , Isn't it ? =/
 #SayItWhenYouMeanIt. You'll have a better relation then! :)

#8. BEST FRIENDS - When those best friends become a reason  to survive. A reason to smile. A reason to laugh. A reason why life becomes worth living. A reason to dump your regrets, guilt and depression. A reason why  you are here with a head held high. You know they are there. A reason to EVERYTHING! :') #Treasure them. Dont take them for granted. :)

#9. YOU'LL FIND A BEST PERSON FOR YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR-  A close friend said to me : "I don't want to be a loser in life and I wont even let you be one. Stop keeping ANYBODY above you. Love yourself the MOST. Cuz' truth remains that NOBODY stands by you. Closefriends, Bestfriends- Important, but not more than yourself. You need to get above. Let us be your priority, but then below you. You HAVE to. It'll lead you nowhere otherwise. Love yourself more than anybody. Give things importance. Be sad. But pick yourself up and have the belief that if you are really "Friends" , then that person is bound to come back. Dont Change, Just get get the Act better!'' << Could anything get better than this for understanding what value YOU hold ?? (I need this person throughout my life. Ilysm :* )

#10. YES, I'M AWESOME And I wouldn't change a thing about it :) - Say it. It'd make you feel Good. :)

(Everything written above have no relations to anyone. Sorry if felt offended though :) )